Recently I was honored when my former Italian professor from F. In the article, I suggest that in the Italian dating arena , we poor American men are severely handicapped—even totally disqualified—by our post-feminism sensitivities and political-correctness. We open doors, engage in smart conversation, avoid sexual innuendo, and never assume that an invitation for dinner or a drink is any more than just that. Silly us, we thought that our All-American charm and goodwill leftover from World War II would instantly ingratiate us with those belle ragazze. Super nice guy; friendly, well-groomed, successful career—the whole meatball. He was in Rome for a few months on a very specific mission:
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I am loving life in Perth, the ocean, the blue skies, the vast horizons. And since I arrived the food culture has really improved. After many years as a solo female traveler in just about all regions in Italy, I have to say that in general the most agressive males are Sicilian…and for the most part have no respect for the sanctity of their marriages. Maybe some women are ok with this, but I find it at sad, probably I had a few affairs with men who never revealed their marital status and since it was never obvious, I enjoyed the company of a number of romantic Italian guys.
One in particular who I will never forget! Now, I just dont care and am too happy in my own life to seek out any male company for anything but friendship. I finally got around to reading your dating blog. The Roman woman has modernized and liberated herself way past the Italian man whose thinking remains back in the Renaissance.
One woman told me her ex-husband never knew what she did for a living. Show interest in something besides their body, respect them, care about what they do and, once in a while, make them laugh. The problem is so many have been screwed over by cheating Italians my blog from last winter: John Henderson Dog-Eared Passport: John, I need to interview you for my podcast on this topic!!!
My opinion at 35 would say that you can have only one partner in life and of life , the one always ready to share everything with and take care about a woman. Usually narcissistic men are heartbrokers and unable to love.
I think a woman can do nothing with it if not realizing to shy away from the danger. It was a cultural comparison, albeit a crude one. Therefore you have to paint broad strokes. Not inappropriate, just inaccurate in my opinion, of course. If I thought it was inappropriate I would have deleted it.
Rest assured I hardly change my idea about sensations, Rick. Not necessarily a comment must be coherent to the topic as the author of the post should. Certain discussions are mere nonsense. Who do you think you are to comment under my replies to another person, milady?! Besides that, your English is not so good for being married to an American.
Just discovered your blog. Want to ask something and make a comment.
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Living in the Netherlands, I see mixed race couples all the time, not just in Amsterdam but in the small towns as well. It seems to me that the openness and curiosity that Italians had 40 years ago when I was a student in Rome has disappeared. As an African- American, I felt like a novelty then. Girls would approach me and start conversations because they were curious about where I was from and even guys would hit on me. One of my former teachers, who is 91, says that Romans have indeed changed; they have become more fearful of foreigners because Rome is filled with so many.
You could just enter the street, come up to the building and ring the bell. Now there is a gate at the end of the street. I have to buzz you in. You were here in the mids, the beginning of the era of prosperity. Now we are in the age of unemployment. Anyway, perhaps, as an Italian, your wife could add her perspective.
Is there much inter-racial dating there? Has Italy become xenophobic? These are great questions, and probably a topic I should address on my blog. In some ways, the Italian version is more honest…meaning that to me, the foreigner, it seems acceptable to openly label someone based on their ethnicity without any ill intentions. In the US, I think political correctness sometimes hides latent racism.
Thanks for replying to my comment. For me, as a person of color, racism and xenophobia are very closely related and often indistinguishable. In the Netherlands often Africans and Moroccans are associated with crime, but the Dutch can easily distinguish me, an American, from them and even from the Surinamese.
Thus, I am able to go to about in jeans and a T-shirt with no hassles. In Rome, however, I feel I have to be dressed to the nines just to go to the grocery.
I miss the Italy of my student days. But to treat people differently based on their race is totally unacceptable. As a result, Google now sends such […]. Thanks for dampening my dream! Obviously, my article was meant to be a bit tongue-in-cheek ok, maybe more than a bit.
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Of course, I have nothing against Italian men, but I think they are still behind Italian women. Your pics with Jessica and Demetra are simply beautiful.
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I still have not met a single Italian woman. It seems impossible for a foreign man to meet a native woman. Meanwhile, foreign women meet local men by the dozen. I have lived in several countries -the UK, Argentina, Brazil, Spain and the Netherlands- and always met locals, men as well as women.
I have some theories, but I need to devise a poll for Italian women to see if I can get some hard data. I am quite sure the article you have in mind will be a success. There must be a zillion articles on foreign women and Italian men, but hardly one single article on the other combination.
Also interesting are the Italian-language articles on http: Perhaps the motives of foreign girls in Rome explain why Italian girls are so diffident of foreign men.
An outsider had to be accepted by the entire clicca before the girl would trust him. It would also part of the social protocol game where the girl needs to be seen to be hard to get. Hey Carly, thanks for your perspective! I just started following you and Im glad I did!
Thanks for the laugh. Hi Ann, thanks so much!! I can offer the perspective of an Italian woman living in NYC — and yes, unfortunately American men do come across as a bit bland to us, courtship-wise. Italian women will take initiative, but here in the US men freak out if the girl makes the first step, which is quite amusing, and works out well in the end — it becomes self-selective.
Not in a mean way, but it is entertaining. I would also add that Italian women, at present, are significantly LESS interested in marriage than American women, and I am talking about educated, upper-middle class urban American women. And it works out for the best for people who do end up marrying us, because chances are it means we really wanted to marry.