Other than those huge problems, you have a massive difference in life expectations, experience, outlook - pretty much everything. If you were 38 and he was 47, the gap would be more manageable. But at your age, the likelihood of your relationship being healthy, supportive and real love is very low - so low as to be pretty much zero. You might be one of those rare 18 year olds who is truly mature and can identify the difference between lust, infatuation and love, and he might be one of those 27 year olds who really does know how to treat a woman and not just see her as a pair of breasts and a vagina. Typically, the arrangement you have revolves around you looking for a father figure or authority figure, not having had that properly displayed in your life, or having it displayed in a warped, twisted, abusive way. He, on the other hand, is likely looking to recapture his late teens youth, to feel validated and worthwhile by attracting a girl to him who will basically worship the ground he walks on, thus boosting his ego and sense of worth. And for a while, it will all seem right, with much passion, zing and sex.
Fuck the gray area. FlyThai , Sep 22, Booster37 , Sep 22, TheRiversCuomo , Sep 22, Last edited by Magus55x , Sep 22, Brandon , Sep 22, RedBullets , Sep 22, Last edited by RedBullets , Sep 22, She's over 18 and you 2 make a connection then go for it.
ButtersParker , Sep 22, DogeLover , Sep 22, Who cares over 16 really. I started dating a 31 year old when i was MegaMouse and B-Mitch like this. If she can't even legally drink, shit's gonna be a problem.
is 27 too old for an 18-21 year old?
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Surely people of these ages are in a different place in their lives and it wouldn't work. Despite all of that I am probably going to unable to restrain myself. What you're in for is mind-blowing sex, I'm 56 and currently seeing 18 and 19 year olds, they are friends with each other but wont play together sadly, but I started seeing the 19 year old and she introduced me to her 18 year old friend and neighbour, they are happy to share but not together??
Honestly, if it were 23 and At that point both of you have probably at least had a taste of adulthood and a few years to experience life. You need time to make your own mistakes and experiences before you're able to really grow into who you are as an adult.
18 year old dating a 27 year old man
If you're particularly mature and have F'd up circumstances, maybe you can do that by the time you hit 18, but the garden variety 18 year old, not likely. Like Jaimelyn said, If you want to have fun, sure why not, go for it,people need to make "mistakes" every now and then. But If you want something more substantial Beyonce is in her 30's and Jay Z is in his 40's and they're both multi-millionare super-stars no?
I'm not really sure "real life" applies there xD.
I mean, she's a full adult, and I am too. However you try to justify it, an 18 year old girl hasn't fully developed her brain yet.
Her judgement and emotional control are likely poor no matter what she says, she doesn't fully understand risk and reward, and she will probably think that you are mature and responsible when she compares you to guys her age. The best rule I have heard for determining your acceptable dating age range comes courtesy of Randall Munroe: From what I have seen, this tends to work well, because as you age, your available pool of people it is acceptable to date expands.
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